I love this purse so much. When I was moving home from Australia I ordered it for myself from forever 21 so that it would be waiting for me when I got home!
Inside: Keys and rabbits foot, cell phone, birth control, ipod touch, wallet from target, earrings from forever 21, Forever Sunshine Lotion from bath and body works, Perfume by Britney Spears, camera memory card incase my other one gets full, Bible, Bracelet, Elephant change purse I put my tylenol in, Sunnies from Forever 21.
I'm not feeling very happy today. I'm gonna share this with everyone because many of my readers are Christian, married women.
Lately I have felt like so many girls are not respecting MY marriage. I don't know if this has ever happened to any of you. But when Trey and I were young we had maybe three break ups when we were 16 that lasted roughly 3 to 4 days. He would sometimes hangout with other girls during these breakups. They were usually girls that he had never met before that he had only seen around shows and things that we would go to, they were never friends and didn't have mutual friends. Trey was never sexual with these girls they would usually only go as far as kissing. Although, when I was younger I struggled with getting over this for a really long time. Once we found ourselves so in love with God when we had matured more, I was able to forgive him and those girls and I was completely ready to start fresh. Although, lately I have found that these girls that were around when we were only 16 and 17 keep finding him on facebook and adding him and trying to catch up. (I'm talking some of them have actually added him like 6 or 7 times.) We deny them because I don't feel it is necessary for us to per sue relationships with them because we are married and none of them share common interests with us nor were they ever Trey's friends. I feel really sad that I'm even getting upset over facebook but when they add him and I have to see their pictures of them dressed scandalous or trying to look sexy, I can't help but get a little sick to my stomach. Not to mention I don't want my husband looking at their pictures which may rehash the memory of the time that they spent together. I feel really disrespected by these ladies because I feel like they are overstepping a boundary by not adding me as well. And I'm not sure how to deal with it in a healthy, Godly way. This weekend was really rough for me a girl he had hung out with added him for the 6 time in a month, her picture was her in a low cut shirt that also showed her stomach. She had a lot of makeup on and she was definitely not looking very modest. I was kinda to my wits end with seeing her on there so I sent her a private message and just said I would really appreciate it if you would not add my husband on facebook anymore. I'm not sure why you want to be friends on here but I don't think it's really necessary. I tried not to be mean at all. Within 5 minutes she replied with not only one message but THREE! She cussed at me, then told me that she could be friends with him if she wanted and that she thinks he's a really cool guy and that she is well aware of our relationship status. And ended the message with I hope you aren't threatened by me. She isn't a christian and I wasn't expecting her to say "Oh yeah I'm very sorry" But I kinda hoped that, thats what would happen. I'm not threatened by her at all, I know that Trey loves me and would never betray me or my trust but what should I do? I've been praying about how to handle all of it because she is just one example of girls not respecting the institution of marriage. Not to mention people that hit on him when we got places and things like that. I feel like I am beating my head on a wall. Any help on what to do? :(
On top of that not seeing Trey much at all because our schedules completely clash is making me feel really lonely. Your Prayers would be much appreciated.
